Pretending I was not looking (I was wearing sunglasses), I started a conversation with him.
Once, in the showers at the municipal pool, I ran into Alex, this 18-year old guy I knew. After three months of almost total abstinence, I was both frustrated and horny as hell and masturbated a lot. Back in 1989, I was dating a beautiful 27-year old girl who was absolutely not into sex.